Oh boy, the guys talkin' women! When do we start making stuff up? I guess that comes later. I remember as a teenager wondering why all these amazing sexual adventures were happening to all the other guys and not me but then it hit me, they're all lying! So being a bit naive, you guys will have to cue me when we get to the "fantasy" stuff so I can play too. Now, so many people think Whatis is still so into his W/STBX/whatever that he has no opportunities...WRONG! I have a sweet young thing at church that likes me and saves me a seat beside her every week at bible study and, at one point, we would sit together every Sunday at the service. I decided that this was a bit unfair as I was not in a place where I was looking for more so I cut back the Sunday stuff and stopped asking her to the odd church event. I'm still not divorced and she's at least 15 years younger than me, never married, never divorced, no kids. I thought it appropriate to not put more ideas in her head assuming there were ideas to begin with. Hey, maybe she just felt safe with the old guy, who knows. I think I did the right thing. But it sure is tempting when you're alone and see something nice happening but I made that mistake once before where I wasn't thinking of the other person I was just seeking validation and taking care of my own needs. Well, enough guy talk. Let me know when I should tell you the story of how I nailed her in the pews...that's for when we get to the making stuff up part! Btw Sol, don't lose too much gut or your buddies will think somethings wrong with you and not want to hang out. The beer gut is our male badge of honour!
I remember as a teenager wondering why all these amazing sexual adventures were happening to all the other guys and not me but then it hit me, they're all lying! So being a bit naive, you guys will have to cue me when we get to the "fantasy" stuff so I can play too.
