H is touching base more frequently and has some insight into his issues. He is currently living with OW, though spending increasingly more time at home for one reason or another.
How do I find the happy medium of being there as a friend to letting them get away with to much cake eating?
If he is coming through the tunnel slowly I don't want to be obstructive to that but I don't want him to have the best of both worlds while sorting himself out.
