Hmmm, good point. He does need to take control of his own life, it's a HUGE issue in our M. He feels controlled and will NOT come back if he feels I'm controlling him... I guess I will have to be careful and make sure he takes control of his own life only, not the life of the marriage or the family - until he is back.
What is your suggestion? I've never gone this route before. The Bo Peep last time took over a year with one relapse, but it worked. I still haven't found your old thread to read through, but I'm interested to do that after I'm done digesting OIN's thread.
