Huband is having an emotional affair

[4luv]

I like the letter too. I have wanted to send my husband a letter of sorts but always talked myself out of it because in the past when i have said actually said something similar to husband he has brushed it off. Matter of fact, he accused me of trying to guilt him into staying married. His brother was in the room when I actually told husband basically what you wrote but his brother already knew what was going on.

I agree with not bothering with husband's sister or brother. Siblings often stick together. Also, my husbands mother said the SAME thing to me when I actually told her about the entire situation. I called her last night to see if she had talked to my husband and told her that he still had not contacted me or even tried to call to check on our son. She didn't seem that phased by it and said "he is just going through alot right now so I am giving him his space." WOW!!!

I think the letter is good but don't send it today.