surviving, their emotions will move all over the place. He's confused and has no idea which way he wants to go - that's why he's waffling back and forth.

Go with the flow and act like everything is the same. Stop trying to figure it out. Life has a mind of its own.

When I have more time I'll try to address some of the things you wrote.

Remember - Control is an illusion.

MySitch
Me-47
STBXW-41
D-5
S-8
ILYBNILWY-01/08
Want a D- 01/09
Physical Sep-01/10
D filed-06/10
Got 50% custody=09/11
Ride that wave!