FIRST... an update... then I will try to respond to the explosion of posts
Spent the day with W. She asked me to come home early from work. This was about an hour after the R talk we had on the phone. I asked her "why" and she just said she wanted me around. I said ok and went home. We went out to lunch to her fav restaurant and then spent some time catching up on a few TV shows we had DVR'd. Lots of snuggle time on the couch. No R talk, no evidence of OM communication.
The night was more of the same after some good kid time.
Before I get into responding to all the posts from yesterday, I have to say that other than the sneaking around with her phone and possibly the lack of constant communication when she's out, nothing else about her behavior reminds me of the previous affair. She is still just as affectionate, we still ML regularly, and she still seems to want to be around me as much as always. During her affair none of that was true. She did the ILYBNILWY thing, pulled WAY back, cut off all physical affection and certainly no sex. So there are many reasons to believe that in some way, things may NOT be what they seem.
Anyway, tonight we are going to a concert and then I have work for the rest of the weekend. Sunday she is going out with a different group of GF's, ones that we are both good friends with. Sucks because they are usually too busy to get together like this. I would LOVE for them to be W's circle instead of these new people.
As I said, I will respond as much as I can to all your posts in the next few hours.
