I know that H was not always happy, and I probably didn't do enough to acknowledge this and make changes that I needed to make. I needed to be stronger, more independent, more loving.
When I questioned H further about the IC statement, he said that delving into our M's problems was really not worth going into and that it would only hurt me unnecessarily.
I think you are onto something rr22. Of course he's free to open his mouth and give an explanation, but he doesn't want to.
I have just remembered what he told me after his first GP consult post Bomb: "The doctor said there is no evil doer in this story, and no victim. It's simply a family tragedy".
