WAH just emailed again. Long update about his various job searches. This is ALL he talks to me about. He says he wants to speak to the counselor but it's a bit of a hassle (since it's an overseas call from his friends house).
I CAN'T believe how NOT seriously he takes me! What? One phone call, a hassle???
I really need to draft an email that tells him all the things I need to tell him, then I want to get his stuff out of my parents garage, then I want to cut our finances, and go completely dark on him.
My self esteem is going down the tubes at a fast rate and I need to restore some honour.
Also DB coach (i have had 3 seesions) says I should validate him wanting to be a father - using the language that he uses.
So in my last email to him I said "I truly believe you want to be a father and love this child already" and he has replied "Thank you for acknowledging my love for our child to come ...." .Grrr & barf
Then he wraps up by his usual "I hope you feel well, peaceful and strong for the next stage of the pregnancy..".
I can't do this anymore... I am so angry... He "hopes" I am WELL, PEACEFUL and STRONG? It's so insulting after what he has done/is doing to me.
