Oh wow, thanks for that post SR. Saw you on TIF`s thread and yeah, I`d been wondering too.
Gosh,seems like we go through a watching paint dry stage in DBing and then very rapidly all hell can break loose.
And its a recurring theme of losts of threads that the WAS is often repeating patterns learned in childhood. They`re often soon filled up with pain they cant see their way out of it beyond blaming their spouses for everything.
Chin up girl-you`re a smart, strong, great lady.
See this as the best thing that ever happened to you. After all, there`s so much to learn in he DB university and you get to keep that learning.
Right now you`ve a lot of changes going on-the move to the city,settling the kids, and the separation. Be good to yourself. So glad you`ve friends and family to support.And glad you`re forgiving H because that`s the biggest kindness you can do for yourself and your kids.
