If this is an A, he obviously does want me to know. Making a big deal about being secretive about dinner...then all it took was one question from me to S6 to find out. He could have casually mentioned that he was meeting with her and given the appearance of an innocent playdate situation.
FM, so glad to see that you're thinking this through.
While it's never a good time but also think about how you'll react *just in case* the news isn't what you want to hear. I know it's tough to do this but we're much better off preparing for the worst but hoping for the best. Preparing before the bomb drops definitely helps.
Of course, most likely he's not having an A.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
