Thank you once again for the info. I'm definitely going to use the wording suggested here. Just to clarify, at this point (4th infidelity/EA in 7 years), I'm NOT willing to go to MC with my H unless he goes to IC first. If that ends the M so be it. I am in IC for myself and my self admitted issues. But it seems obvious to me that my H has issues above and beyond our M, and unless he's going to address them, MC won't save our M.
Maybe this is a bad attitude...I don't know. I'm just not as gung ho as I used to be. Thanks again VERY much.
M--14 years T--20 years, HS sweethearts dday #1--2002 EA dday #2--2005 bar sl*t dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years
