No, H is very shy and reserved about sex. I talked dirty to him playfully a few times in the beginning and he turned red and said he didn't like it. He's 50-50 on taking the lead. I'd say straight and normal. And from the 40 or so emails I read, it was them sneaking around behind both of our backs. You're right, Allen... nothing weird in there. They really thought they were in love. Lots of "you're my soul mate" and "I've never felt like this before?" Really? Oh, yes, you make me sooooo happy, I can't stop thinking about you. You know when we're "together" well, it hurts when you hit that one spot... that sort of thing. Even got to learn the name of her privates. LOL. MIL literally LOL when she read that one. I especially LOVED the one where she said "OMG, we ARE so alike, we both like beer, food and sleeping." I thought - whoa! Back up a minute here, I should probably back away and let these two SOUL MATES get together. I mean, who can fight a common interest in beer, food and sleeping, right?
OWH is a super, super nice guy. Mentioned several times he felt like a "tool" felt "taken advantage of." That he kicks himself for being so passive at parties sometimes, and so shy. I think he's so sweet, and my H is a tall, stockily built, third degree black belt with a heart of gold and a smile to match. He's model handsome, which doesn't help my life any. I'm no expert on OW and OWH's M, but I suspect that OW was looking for more of a take charge guy but someone with her H's sweetness still there somewhere. I suggested to him that one of his 180s could be being more aggressive (in a good way) and not so passive.
I'm no expert on OW and OWH's M, but I suspect that OW was looking for more of a take charge guy but someone with her H's sweetness still there somewhere. I suggested to him that one of his 180s could be being more aggressive (in a good way) and not so passive.
