You knew, but now you know. There will be some anger, but you can handle this.
Does this change your goal of reconciliation? It doesn’t sound like it.
You set the boundaries, that is wonderful. Now it is up to him to meet those boundaries.
Take your time.
You are strong. Don’t you forget that. You went through your pregnancy and had that beautiful little girl, while taking care of your other D, all by yourself.
Don’t think you can’t make it through this too.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox