I have to listen to my WAW too right and 180 some things?
So now she's more open she's confiding she wants to try to trust again and I should go dark? how does that fix it?
H i'm want to go to MC and us talk work on R.
NOooooooooooooooooo! let's go dark.
So after you find out your wife has been with several other men and you get herpes from her, one day of half decent behavior from her and you trust her already? It didn't take much and if you believe that she's ready to change you're gullible. If it's that easy for her to get your attention and get you wanting her again, she knows she has you wrapped around her finger and guess what, you should expect a repeat of her crap behavior - she didn't have to work for your trust or affection, you gave it up easily and she'll expect you to do the same thing over & over again when she screws up. She didn't confide anything, she told you what you wanted to hear or more accurately, you heard only what you wanted to hear. She has to trust you? Did you have the affairs? Did you give her herpes or did she give it to you? She turned all of this around on you and makes you think that you have to work to earn her trust and you wonder why we're fed up with you?!
You think your situation is so unique among hundreds & thousands of situations in these forums?
That's why I said good luck to you, since you won't listen and you continue to do your own thing, it doesn't really matter what advice I give or anyone else for that matter - you won't listen, you'll only do what you FEEL like doing. So why should anyone waste their time providing you advice on your situation? It's not worth it, I speak for myself, no one else.
So again, good luck, I hope whatever you do works out for you.
