My question is now...where do I go from here? Keep on as if today did not happen and continue to do what I was doing or do I back off and let her do her thing while I do mine and see if she comes around?
If I would have just kept my mouth shut rather than trying to calm her than we would had a pretty good day otherwise.
Last night we slept in same bed, I am debating if I should even try to lay there tonight...
You need to keep your distance for a few days. Do the work around the house and such. If she DOES ASK you.. and i stress ASK you to do something DO IT, no questions.
If you make a lunch, make extra for her and just quietly let her know its there and go about your business. Don't try to talk to her or pursue her in any way right now.. give her SPACE to absorb the whole argument. She needs to own part of it too... and you giving her the time to absorb that will give that time to sink in.
I am wondering about you posting something to facebook on her behalf, but I dont know what to say just yet.
I would need to see the EXACT text that was written about her.. the full blast from OMW sister to know how to respond.