Fergie may want to change things up a bit physically, because he's now, kind of, a single guy. But, he certainly doesn't need to. He's nicely groomed, well dressed, and a calm, welcoming presence.
Activities? Sounds like he's quite busy with what he has... How about it, Fergie?
BUT, his biggest self-comfort will come from changing up what got he and his W to where they are now... separated, and not happy w/the M the way it was. Maybe it's counseling, maybe it's dating others, maybe it's just being apart... It might be that it's not meant to happen. Personalities grown in two different directions. Sad, but definitely something that can be recovered from.
I see this as a little different situation than a lot of others here... Looks, demeanor, weight issues aside...
If he jazzed it up for himself, he would truly be doing it for himself, because, if it was a 180 for their M, it would probably be rubbing salt in a wound. He doesn't need to look BETTER.
If he became more outgoing or did activities for himself, he would truly be doing it for himself, because, if it was a 180 in their M, it would ALSO be rubbing salt in a wound. He doesn't need MORE stuff to do.
Not sure what I am trying to say other than... I think it's a bit different.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
