How to approach W about OM

[MrBond]

IMHO,

I wouldn't send this message. There's a reason why they say in DR to not talk about the R. It sounds like more self-flagellation. There are only so many times you can say "sorry".

You've said it countless times and it doesn't excuse her for what she did. Trust me. I did the same thing and it got me no where. Maybe you should just let things settle down a bit.

You're trying to move things along according to your time table. This has to be at her pace. It sucks, but she has to be the one to make the moves, not you.