DM, it's OK. Sometimes arguments happen, no matter how resolved you are not to get into any. I've done the same thing. I would loose my cool and he would get into defensive and voila...an argument. Don't forget that you are both highly stressed.
After such an argument I would feel terrible and I would email him to apologize and he would do the same. And that actually feels good when you are both able to apologize to each other...it somehow made me feel closer to him. And your W actually opened up a little to you, talking about her feelings. It may not be what you wanted to hear, but that's all that she can offer right now.
Hang in there and I hope that grandpa pulls through.
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