Wouldn't that be more game-playing? I mean just because he's acting like a teen doesn't mean she has to also.
It's only been a little over a day since she confronted him. Maybe things should settle down a bit first to see what happens.
No, I don't see protecting your home and exposing transgressions to the other household as game playing.
The fake exposure is an experiment. If exposure brings out his conscience then I say go for it... If the person on the other end of the line doesn't care, then no harm done. If the person on the other end of the line doenst' even exist.. I still say, this is to SAVE a marriage.
Having sex with your spouse when they are having an affair to help re-build a physical bond is game playing.
It's all game playing. The objective is to bust an affair and to get to a healthier marriage.
I say play on. I don't see the problem with it. I am not reccomending donig this to be spiteful, to be hurtful, or anything destructive. I am reccomending this as a strategy.
MWD reccomends something quite similar when she suggests pushing mystery into your activities to pique interest from your spouse.. its all a "game" per se.
THe OBJECTIVE is a healthy marriage. I say play on.
