She texts me saying she just woke up and do I still want to meet because some of my paperwork at drug test got screwed up and it’s delayed. I’m kinda ticked off because I’m trying to not piss right then and there and have to wait but finally the paperwork is faxed over to the lab so I can take drug test.

I have to wait about an hour and a half for WAW to get dressed and meet me at location. She calls me and says she can’t find me. I step out in my new clothes and having lost maybe 10 to 15 pounds from last week from eating healthier and walking. She is dressed stunningly. She says I look handsome. I say she looks sexy.

Then she asks me if I like her outfit. I tell her I do. She said “yesterday on the phone you told me how me doing all these nice things for OMs and taking pics in lingerie and outfits was disrespectful and I agree. So this is YOUR OUTFIT. THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I’VE WORN IT AND I WORE IT JUST FOR YOU AND BECAUSE IT’S YOUR FAVORITE COLOR”

I am literally jaw dropped. We hug and she plants a huge kiss on me. Then we get on the bus. We skip breakfast cause it’s getting late and decide to go to the bowling alley. She’s just talking to me. Confiding in me. Telling me things I never knew. Telling me her thoughts. Her feelings. What has been going on with SD8 and that particular case. She’s looking at me. Talking to me. Smiling. There’s no rage or disappointment in her eyes. I don’t see any hurt. I just see her smiling.

When the date first started I got a phone call from a female friend of mine who is very near and dear to me and is also related to SD8. She’s been there for me through all of this and there’s nothing funny going on. We just talk on the phone and she gives me advice from a woman’s perspective.

Well I tell her I’m on date with WAW and WAW actually gets JEALOUS. She asks who it is and names a few people in our family and I say no. She just says whatever and laughs and we go on to the bowling date. the date.


We walk to the bowling alley and hold hands and lock arms. It meant so much. Then I pay for the bowling shoes and hour lane rental. Then we hold hands and kiss. A long passionate one. She embraces me tightly. I whisper into her ear how pretty and beautiful she looks and she blushes and starts giggling.

I ask her if I still make her blush and she’s like you haven’t made me blush like this in months. So then we bowl and have a great time. Neither one of us had ever bowled together. The only dates we ever had were eating. So this was a 180 and something different. We both like bowling though.

I’m snapping pictures and she’s blushing. We’re laughing and joking and being playful.
Even some intimate flirting and talk but nothing vulgar.

Then after that we get in the cab and go to lunch. She says she’s tired from the bowling and can we take a cab cause where we’re going isn’t too far. I say you’ve gotten spoiled! She says well one thing I can say is that you’ve always spoiled me. It’s all your fault and and smiles and we both start laughing.

She holds my hand I hold hers. She asks me if I’m ok and if the bowling pushed me too far healthwise. I tell her I’m ok.

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waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32
together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010

children SD (8) S (10) S (3)
need help from anyone with my sitch