Well didn't go to the hospital today. MIL called to tell me that the heart doctor came to check on Grandpa. Found that at some point over the past couple days, he had a mild heart attack. The doctor is not optomistic about Grandpa making it through this. Grandpa is a fighter though. Going back to the hospital tomorrow.
The stress from all this caused my wife and I to get into an argument. I forgot some of my DB principles. I knew she was upset and tried to push her to talk to me. She got angry because I was pushing and I got frustrated because she wasn't talking. So I left her house with both of us angry.
When I got home I IM'ed her and told her I was sorry we argued. She said she was sorry too and told me that the more people push her to talk the more she wants to run away. She wants to be left alone to deal with it. I told her that I was learning to handle these situations differently but sometimes that I slip and fall and that I was sorry. She said that her dad told her that she's the rock of the family and they look to her to be the strong one. That she won't show her pain until the curtain falls and she's in private. I told her that I understood and was here if she needed someone to lean on. I get the feeling she was talking about more than just this situation.
