One thing I've been warned about CBart is that we should never allow OMs to babysit daughters. My sister was raped by my mom's fiance. This was potential husband three. If I remember right, she was babysitting his kids. Mom came home to our house and he went home and was drunk and, well ... That ended that relationship.
Unfortunately, that happens far too often. So I'd at least discuss this with your L.
If my W ever finds someone whose willing to put up with her issues long term, I'm going to have it in the divorce settlement that no boyfriends or even fiancees are allowed to be home alone with my girls for any extended period of time.
I'm pretty sure she'll agree, but then I'll have to follow up.
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