How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

I typed out a letter. I will hand write it. I don't think she will read it.

I feel like I have more than set myself back but greatly diminished my chances of ever reconciling. There are so many components involved from our past, to OM and her co-workers and her father.

My W has a huge problem when it comes to trusting people. She just does NOT and if you burn her she will shut you out completely. I watched her do this to her mother and to this day she still does not speak to her. We are talking 3 years now.

I can see the resentment and hate in her eyes when she looks at me. She is NOT your typical WAS trust me.

Allen you have been a main contributor to this thread and I wanted to share something with you in private (email or something) if you don't mind.

Also I think I am going to hire a DB coach if there is any hope..

P.S. Now do I watch "Fireproof" with her?