You don't need them BOTH to want out of the affair, you only need ONE of them. If she tells him to get lost and she means it.. and he keeps pestering her.. do you honestly think she's gonna find that sexy?
It's OK if he won't leave her alone... as long as SHE wants NOTHING to do with HIM then you are gold. He WILL stop trying after a while... it happens.
Honeslty she did have some visceral things to say about him... I really am having trouble believing he is not letting some of that sink in... He's addicted, so he's gonna keep chasing for a bit... but... I dont' for the life of me know why she would write such hateful stuff about him if they were still sneaking around...
if THAT was an act, then why don't they just NOT communicate then?
To me it reads as if SHe may be fed up with all the BS and may really want away from him and you right now... But he doens't want to give up on her... that's how I am reading it at the moment...
