Luv- do you have a plan for when he comes home? Where you will be (not at the house? that would be a 180 for you, right?), how you'll take care of yourself in his presence, what will you say, will you talk about him moving out, etc.--
Have a wonderful day to yourself and do something fun!
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.
I will be civil even though he grosses me out beyond belief.
What do you mean by it grosses you out? Is it mostly his personality, what he has done in every 10 years, or his inability to recognize/be responsible for how his actions have hurt you?
H got home last night at 9:30. He got in from out of town at 11am. He then went to work (lies) he actually went to lunch with someone..hmm wonder who that could be? My D text him and said, "daddy where are you?" he said, "at work" he wasn't. You'd think after being gone so much he'd come home one day early - even for the kids but he doesn't.
Anyway he ended up going into the office and actually called home from there. I haven't seen that number come up on our caller id in 2 months! When he got home we were all doing our own thing. He came into the room and told me about some police that were outside blah blah. I didn't care what he had to say. He also asked me if I saw the text he sent the kids (about his dad's bday) again...why on earth would I care about that?
Ok I'm done ranting about my lousy H. It's a beautiful day here in Cali and I'm going to try and enjoy it. I am taking my kids and my best friend to the Angels game tonight.
Keep praying for me guys. I have so much pressure on me.
Luv
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
