I have the text from what I read to her on the phone, so I can tell H exactly what I said, but I don't know that he would believe me over her at this point.
I make it a policy to NEVER break a promise and TRY to NEVER lie. He knows this, but he's already taken her side, called HER a GOOD PERSON. Um, come on. She's a liar, a cheater, immature and juvenile, and baited me into arguing with her.
You are taking everything he is saying and doing too seriously... he's in a FOG and addicted right now.
Have you watched the TV Show Addicted, or Intervention? They are GREAT for preparing you for wayward script and infidelity script...
You need to just let it all run right off your shoulders. My wife threw the most horrible stuff at me when she was cheating on me... now I don't get a word of anything harmful... she's not the type of person to be verbally visceral at all, but she WAS when she was addicted to her affair... quite so.
Just don't let it GET to you.. he's in a FOG and its the ADDICTION talking.
Remember Saffie I think said it took her Husband a YEAR to say anything negative about OW.. and her husband had to give her a warm send off too...
I don't reccomend tolerating that, but I woudln't push it right now... we want to wait for more clues to find out if he's actually gotten the heave "ho".
