Yeah, MrBond, I don't expect an apology from OW EVER - I think she actually thinks this was GOOD for her M - it brought things out into the open. And H, well, he's a LONG way off from that.
I have the text from what I read to her on the phone, so I can tell H exactly what I said, but I don't know that he would believe me over her at this point.
I make it a policy to NEVER break a promise and TRY to NEVER lie. He knows this, but he's already taken her side, called HER a GOOD PERSON. Um, come on. She's a liar, a cheater, immature and juvenile, and baited me into arguing with her. And on my voice mails, her shrill voice and obvious elevation of tone of voice show she is losing her mind over this. I'm not the one who left her four 5-10 minute voice mails - and she tries to make it sound like I'm obsessed with her... I honestly wouldn't even be thinking of her except that I type OW so often just as an explanation.