Talia---i can sympathize with you in regards to your H bad mouthing you and making it all your fault to himself and to others. So I will tell you the same thing that others have told me many times and is very true (even though I still struggle to see this in my own situation)-----Who cares!? I say that b/c people know the truth and just b/c they do not come rushing to your side or call you out of the blue to tell you what a no good rotten so and so your H is does not mean that they do not know it already.
You will find that some people will remain friends with and some people you will not, some people will not stay in touch with either one of you. Dont sweat it, as for your H maybe his actions are just proof that you deserve better?
H: 30 W: 31 S: 2 T/M: 6/4 D Final 4-5-10
Bomb: June 09 Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?