There is nothing I have said that is dishonest and nothing that I have done that I am ashamed of. The only thing I wonder if I should tell H about is that FIL changed locks on apt. I wasn't going to tell him b/c I wanted him to go there with OW and find out on his own, cause a little strife... but now that she's probably not going there with him, it may be kinder to tell him that the "picnic palace" has been closed for good.
In any case, I guess strategy is the only thing I want to hide, but I've given up on that side of things. I am just being myself, working on myself, making myself happy, reading more, learning more, and leaving the rest to God... so, go ahead and read your heart out.
H does know about this forum, so he may figure it out. He may not know who Passenger is, though.
