My db coach said to go dark a few days at a time and see how the h reacts. He seems to keep in contact, not about anything important, but he keeps in contact via text. Haven't talked with or seen him for a week now.

I just feel like "out of sight out of mind"....more time for the ow. Arrgh!


M 35, husband 35
M 10
Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count
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