That's interesting... again I think he and her are "protesting too much"
They seem to be making a HUGE SHOW of them NOT CONTACTING each other.
What we need to do is find out if they ARE indeed trying to end things.
I don't know if they are or not... it could go either way here.
I would just ingore him for a while like I suggested earlier... He needs time to withdraw from her if he IS even making an effort. You can't make much of a dent yet until he's gottan her out of his system.
What I am going to suggest Pass is that you update YOUR facebook account with a public posting of each time your H tries to contact this woman.
Date it and note it on there.
It's exposure yet again and it should piss him off. I want to see if she responds to him or not... if they keep tryign to sell this "It's over" story I am going to put all my money on it still happening.