He will not deal with his issues if an ow is present.
Sounds like your H is depressed. So far the things he is saying sound like typical MLC script.
This will take more patience than most people have. What helps is to detach from your H's drama. It gives him space and you a chance to work on you and your issues and to figure out what it is that YOU want.
What you do with this time is up to you. Some LBS's become angry and bitter where others come to view it as a gift. The choice is yours.
Hang in there. We're all here for each other. (((Hugs)))
