Big stuff happening - things have been ridiculous. New job is crazy - the are super under staffed so I am working a ton of extra hours. I'm really starting to feel like the issues I'm seeing are from poor owner management - so I'm still looking for another opportunity. I'm afraid my first impressions/ fears were accurate. I'm struggling through it....
On top of all that stress... H still haven't filed the D paperwork and is now trying to get in the way of my loan modification. I need his cooperation and he knows it, so he's trying to use that as leverage. Its been going on since he threatened and clearly he has no intention of actually filing for D. I talked him into giving them the docs today and I confirmed with the bank that they did get them. As long as the underwriter dosen't find ANOTHER frickin stupid thing she wants I should have the papers sent tomorrow so then it will just be getting him to sign them. He used the MOD situation today to make me promise to work with him on a joint divorce process. I told him I would.... so I've decided that I'm going to MAKE him sign the papers for the MOD. I'll have one conversation with him about the divorce process - we clearly won't agree.... Then The next day I'm filing for D and having him served.
ONT TOP OF ALL THAT... with him pulling the MOD interference crap yesterday my aunt died... and he knows because spy told him... because I called spy and asked him to please talk to H and get him to help me with the MOD.... so on one hand he's all "I'm sorry for your loss" and "Give your grandma a big hug from me" and in the same breath he's all "I won't help you with the MOD unleass you agree to work with me on the D".... So not only am I terribly upset about the death - we were very close - but he's using it to manipulate me too...
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ME28,WAH30, M 5YRS, T 7YRS ,OW/ILYBNILY/SEP 9/09 Served with D papers 6/6/10 Current
