Last time, it took a year and a half, and H admitted to cake eating in the end. This time, he's SURE he hasn't loved me for 12 years... it hurts a bit more, or maybe I'm worn down more from it being a second time... but yes, I have already given him to God and said to Him that I would work on myself and let Him handle H.
Then I start driving and scheming on how to get him to go to Retro still... LOL. Some way to Let Go Let God, right? It's going to take time and patience with myself to get to the point where I'm able to entirely just have patience with the situation. If you were to read my old posts, I had one poster who continually admonished me "PATIENCE." LOL
And yes, Puppy, I have also wondered if he was a cuckold. She's domineering and he's VERY passive, and was ready RIGHT AWAY to take her back. Doesn't check up on her or anything. When he caught her kissing another man at a party, his condition to taking her back was that whenever she drives an hour away and stays overnight, she texts him to let him know she's safe and not with any men. Yeah, no help there.
