Believe nothing you are told. You are going to get the blame for most everything at this point. Think of it like this, you sent OM a message, OM says something to WAW in passing conversation about you contacting him. She will take that and relay it to you as you being threatening. I never once threatened the OM in my sitch, but have been blamed for it multiple times. I have been through some big ones there. It even went as far as some friends of mine asking if OM needed to have his a$$ kicked, and that falling on me as trying to find someone to beat him up so I would not be blamed. LOL. Still have to laugh at that one, and they got even worse, but I am leaving those off of here.