Celestial,
MLC sounds like such a common "disease" after all...I am so overwhelmed at the number of cases...I am afraid that my H's MLC must have started after his mother's death, with whom he never reconciled (they hadn't spoken to each other for many years), followed by an unexpected minor operation he had to undergo, which brought him face to face with his mortality - since he absolutely hates hospitals,- followed by the "empty nest" syndrome, especially after our son left for college to another country..then my daughter, etc...I remember him becoming very concerned about his thinning hair, his health, my health, etc., as well as preoccupied with how much time he has left for doing the things he had always wanted to do but he never had time for..


Bomb: 4/2009
M28 T32 Sep8
Me: 53, H:57
S20,D17
D papers filed by H: 2013
H didn't follow up with divorce
I completely let go ever since