SC, I so agree with Snodderly. I believe I posted to you once before that your H not wanting you to come to the city where he lives is indeed a red flag. He cannot seem to give you a good explanation for that, especially if it is the city where you lived together. The four week time frame is also a red flag. What is the significance of four weeks?
If you can get those questions answered to your satisfaction I think you could make a better decision. Why would you risk being put through this again when H seems clearly still in the tunnel.
There is something fishy in Denmark or should I say France?
Hang in there. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders, you'll get this figured out.
