I just want to say that I love your point of view and your insights on wives in general. Could you take a look at my sitch and give me some feedback? I would love to let my W do more of the talking and telling me where I screwed up so that I would know more of how to validate her. It seems like when we are together we are working on me and not working on her if you know what I mean. I'm not sure if this is because of her EA/PA and she just doesn't want to deal with our R or what. I know that the EA/PA make it tough and I am GOING DARK and doing NC right now but our S23 will be home next week for a visit and we may see each other then but probably only as a family.
I believe that the D will be final in June and she will be gone in June for at least the summer and possibly longer. I don't think that there is any way that this wont happen. In her mind the D was inevitable (she needs the old marriage over for closure or something) and the EAs were just because she is moving on. She is a very stubborn WAW who does NOT feel that she needs any IC (even with all of her past issues including sexual abuse). She also does not see that she is doing anything wrong as far as her kids are concerned and wonders why the Rs with them are so bad. She is just in a real selfish teenager mode right now but expresses herself like an adult.
If you need any other questions answered just ask in my sitch.
Thanks!
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10
