What I didn't mention is that this is H's second (more serious) manifestation of crisis, since what I would call the 1st bomb, happened three and a half years ago when he had hooked up with some internet OW and he was entertaining thoughts of leaving. But I managed to reach out to him and we reconciled and I thought that was the end of it. As time went on though the distancing developed again, and here we are now living the nightmare.. H had started showing signs as back as 5 years ago, with the typical behaviors of the denial stage, change of hair, gym enthusiast, interest in appearance, acting like a teenager, etc., which just made the rest of us joke about all this, saying that he is just going through "male menopause" at 54 then. So, after reading all I could about MLC, I can't say that I know what stage he is in now...it's all very confusing to me. Can anybody help?
Bomb: 4/2009 M28 T32 Sep8 Me: 53, H:57 S20,D17 D papers filed by H: 2013 H didn't follow up with divorce I completely let go ever since
