Everyone has given you good advice....I have one major question....does your h own the city he's living in? Why are you allowing him to dictate where you can or cannot live? He's certainly not living w/you and shouldn't have a say at this point in the game.

Now, about the 4 weeks...what will 4 weeks do for him? I still stand firm on what I posted a while back....he's trying on the relationship and if HE does not feel comfortable w/it, he'll fly away again. This is entirely too disruptive for you and your family. For one thing, no one should move in and out and back into a relationship w/o some heavy duty working on themselves and proving to the lbs that they want to make it work.

I suspect that there is something else going on w/him and I can't help but wonder at the 4 week deal. You have to decide whether you and your children want to go through the heartbreak all over again if he ups and leaves again. Why should you inconvenience you and your family for this houseguest? Suggest he stay at a hotel/motel or better yet, pitch a tent in the back yard. Your home is not the Holiday Inn for a wayward spouse.

I believe I hear France calling!

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.