I have just had another little thought - and you might not think it's appropriate but my children and I use white feathers as a little way of reminding each other that we are thinking of them. Some people believe that white feathers are signs of an angel's visit ...... we simply say that when we see a white feather we know that we are thinking of each other and sending all of our love.

My daughter adores this - she is 8 now and regularly says "white feather, love you Mum" when she sees a feather on the ground or in the air......

Stars are another good marker too.

lalxx

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Me: 45
Him: 44
S:11
D:8
Met in 1992
Married in 1995
Bomb drop September 30th 2009
Divorce final April 16th 2011
exH Marries OW June 17th 2011