That is a change for me. But sometimes you gotta go back to the well. Can't be all change-y.
Agreed. You shouldn't change everything. But what exactly have you changed? You already had your hobbies, haven't started any new ones. Haven't changed your appearance (no need for new shirts). Haven't changed your routine. So what are you doing that's a 180?
If you are totally happy with who you are and where you are, then fine. And honestly, you sound like a good guy to me. But if you aren't willing to change now then you probably never will. Again, fine if that's what you want. I just don't want you to look back and realize this was an opportunity to change your life for the better and you didn't take advantage of it.
My pov has always been that this sucks big time and if I have to go through it I should at least get something good out of it. Whether or not I end up with BF I know that I'm working on becoming a better person so I'm happy with myself.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
