I've been reading OIN's thread. I'm on page 25. He's done very well so far. I'm very happy to hear the ending may be better than the beginning.
Smile all you want, I don't think its vendictiveness as much as it is just a sense of justice here.
OIN's thread is an excellent one for you to read.. well, the first half.. Once its clear the OM there is out of hte picture it may not be as constructive a reference.
BUT... the beginning should give you a lot of confidence AND help demonstrate to you how LONG it takes to get teh contact to TRULY END. It took OIN a LOT more than just TWO days to put a stop to that affair. And HE'sa COP lol
It will hopefully give you some insights though... I hope you can see how much stress his exposure over there put on that home to clean itself up. I think that accounted for the bulk of why the affair there got busted.
And as I read OW's notes on your thread here, your HUSBAND sounds JUST LIKE OfficerInNeed's WIFE .. they are BOTH pissed that you went to the OP's home and blew the whole thing into the open and kept calling.
If your spouse is cheating on you, and what you are doing is pissing them off, you are probably doin somthing right... so keep at it.
