trying to keep hopeful

[forward]

It's tough, but I do believe that "going dark" is a good thing to do. It can help you to heal. It might not be easy, but the hits to your self-esteem need not happen when he ignores you and bails as fast as he can. It's also a 180 if you've been hanging on to the situation.

Use this time to work on yourself, evaluate your patterns, and get back on track. It will make you more attractive...but also ready for whatever is next.