Passenger I will WARN you about somethign too though.
YOu gave OWH a copy of divorce busting.
It seems reasonable to think she MAY stumble upon this website since she knows you gave him that book.
If there are any clues to who you are from your username you may want to change your username and start a new post to ensure you keep your anonymity here. I have seen cases where a cheating WS or even the OW came on the forum to do counter intelligence on the LBS.
It may take OW some time to find this forum, but just keep it in mind she MAY find it.
It is something that really frustrates me about this forum's policies -
1. Editing is limited to only a few minutes, after that the post can't be changed 2. You can't delete your posts 3. You can't delete threads you OWN 4. The forum is public access, it requires you to just create a simple system account and supply an email address and you're in.