You should read through officer in need's thread.. he was in a similar situation to yours. His wife was in an EA and he called OM's wife and complained. His calling regularly put a HUGE black could over the affair and stressed the two cheaters out quite a bit... the affair on his end is pretty much over from what I can read... OM doens't talk to his wife at all and even changed shifts at work to avoid her.
It really is an interesting experiement to see how much stress exposure puts on the OP when you go after THEIR home and turn THEIR home upside down with the TRUTH... seems to cause them quite a lot of panic I'd say... too bad they are just getting a MILD taste of what they've been doing in secret for weeks... and YOU are really just HELPING their marriage to be honest... I don't think you are doing ANY DAMAGE to the MARRIAGE... you are just exposing an affair and warning the OWH about it.. hardly compares to the sleazy game this woman's been playing...
OfficerInNeed attacked that well.. all he did was made it clear to his wife and OM that he's putting everyone's cards on the table to protect BOTH marriages... people can't complain when you put it like that...
I know she's getting bitchy when you contact her husband, but I really do think its helping put an end to that affair..
The more I read her writing the more I can see how pissed she is that you spoiled everything and ARE spoiling things for her... you are taking her cake away adn she clearly doens't like it.
