The fact is, we need more intel before we can extend anyone in this mess the trust they need to make anything work long term.
The way this woman writes its pretty clear her and your H wouldn't last long if they did get together... she's incredibly selfish... not to mention vicious and remorseless
those qualities do not long term commitment make
keep the exposure train running I say... its doing a lot of damage that's clear.
i would keep sending OWH messages anyhow, not desparate ones, just info... it seems to be really frustrating HER... funny how SHE doens't like it when YOU poke at HER marriage when you are sincerely trying to REPAIR it, but for how many weeks was she secretly picking away at YOUR marriage without the slightest thought to the damage she was doing?
I just don't think you can trust someone who isn't showing any remorse, and she isnt as far as I can tell.
so, keep the exposure train running and keep collecting what intel you can.
Your husband has had two women fawning over him for weeks. I dont think he is giong to be able to go cold turkey anytime soon... so, he will keep pursuing her and you will catch him and call again OR he will try to offer something respectable to you...
I say as long as there is indication of infidelity keep contacting OWH to report on it. Even if she sees it, she's not in a position to complain... its just exposure and she can complain all she wants to... all you're doing is telling her H the truth.
