You still have to be careful. My attorney, a woman practicing divorce for almost 30 years, has frequently told me that when women fall in love with another man, they punch out and divorce the man. When the reverse occurs, the man stays in the R because the wife/woman 'performs a function'.

Hey...I'm not being a naysayer. I only wish you all to be careful and not get hurt again. Keep an open eye. Work it. Certainly, saving a marriage that can be healthy is better than divorcing. FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;