I can honestly say My H never said he was DONE. He wouldnt. I would beg him to tell me he was, but he said he just couldnt say it...basically his point of view was saying that maybe years down the road we would get back together, therefore...we werent done...just his crazy way of looking at things.

Actually he did do things that made me think he was done at times...like separating alot of the financial things, getting separation papers (although we never signed them), looking for an apartment to share with the OW, etc...

I understand the stalling part....I think I did alot of that myself.

It seems to me that your H may not be done, or is he just afraid to go through with it? I mean you can say your done...but actions speak louder, right?

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10