Why are others projecting THEIR definitions of "done-ness" onto ol' SP here?
It seems to me that the person in the best position to determine their level of done-icity is Smiley himself. He's always marched to his own drummer (no, SP, I'm not calling you "batchit crazy here ) ; so maybe he uses a different measuring stick for his heart's done-ness?
Puppy
Awesome, awesome post, Puppy!
See, that's what's so cool about being an individual. We each have different experiences which shape our lives and reactions to said lives, loved ones, etc.